Studies upon studies show that caregiving systems (families) dramatically influence the development and emotional well-being of children.
To me this reaffirms the the beauty of ‘BEING THERE” for our children, emotionally, physically, mentally.
Mothers are incredibly powerful. (Sometimes I need a good reminder of that when I’m feeling invisible…does anyone else feel that way sometimes??)
Oh, I have lots more to say about that attachment theory at some point, but for now I just want to talk about one of my favorite take-aways from the class:
I LOVED the theory of the “welcoming response.”
My class talked about how important a positive “welcoming response” is for children: for caregivers (usually a mother) to light up when their child comes into a room.
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The art of starting a conversation:
A simple formula: Make an observation, then ask a question.
- Bring up something you observe: "I love your Michigan hat. Are you from there?"
- Look for commonalities: "did you say you used to be a lifeguard? Me too!"
- Find connection: "I think I recognize you from middle school. Did you go to KJH?"
- Share a compliment: "Your solo was incredible. Do you take private lessons?"
- Be honest: "I've never taken CE classes and feel super overwhelmed. Have you done them before?"
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